Risky

Yesterday I was sitting in my friend Jody's office, listening to him share with me something he is really passionate about.  Even though I bristled a bit at one of his conclusions, because of my respect for him personally I felt compelled to lean in and and try to understand his point of view.  Though the mood at the end of the conversation was a bit subdued, I believe a bond was formed because of our mutual willingness to fully engage the topic.  It is risky to really consider another person's point of view, but a necessary prerequisite for real friendship.  It is also scary to reveal your personal perspective on a sensitive issue, but again necessary to gain and build trust.