Tuesday, November 17, 2009

Talking about Right and Wrong

Today I had a discussion with my tutor about morals.  I invited her to share with me about what in her culture would be considered "bad" and "good."  After sharing a bit about what defines good or bad behavior, she expressed concern over the gradual decline in moral values in her country.  Though she feels some of the taboos needed to be redressed, she mentioned that the decline may indicate a crisis of trust.  From an early age, children are taught what is right.  Share, be kind, think of others first ... but what happens when the child grows up and discovers that nobody really plays by these rules, including those placed in authority over them.  It is during this time that they enter the "real world," and are forever changed.  The outcome is predictable:  Trust no one but yourself.

My teacher alluded to the importance of faith regarding good morals but did not elaborate much more.  In her culture, several ancient philosophers continue to have strong influence, though the influence of money and self-preservation is stronger still.  She also is familiar with our faith (both her Grandmother and Mother are sisters), but feels the educational indoctrination she received as a child has predisposed her to be unable to believe it.  I look forward to hearing more about this subject.